A few years ago I did an ancestry binder for an in-law
branch of the family which shall remain nameless. I discovered the story of a genuine black
sheep—George Washington Coomes, who was shot to death on September 5, 1896.
George was born in McLean County, Kentucky, on January 16,
1861. He married Cordelia Martin in 1887;
she was 17 and he was 26. During the
course of their thirteen-year marriage they had three sons.
But all was not well.
According to a newspaper article which ran in The Messenger after his death, George “for the past few years had
been leading a very fast life and gained quite an unsavory reputation.” The paper reported that “for the past year or
two, he had almost deserted his family and had been devoting all his time and
attention to loose characters.” After
going out drinking with his friends, he sometimes ended up at the house of
Sarah Wall, a local lady of the evening.
As the story is told in The
Messenger, George and his friends had spent that day in town, “frequenting
saloons,” and later proceeded to Ms. Wall’s house of ill repute at the edge of
town. The newspaper reported that the
last time he’d stopped by, he “kicked the panels out of the doors, broke up the
furniture, ran the inmates off the place, and slept through the night on the
front stoop.” Ms. Wall had warned him
that if he ever returned, she would kill him—and she was as good as her word. The paper reports that when George refused to
leave, even at the urging of his friends, and then made threats to her, she
raised a gun, fired it, and after he fell, cocked the gun to shoot again—but he
didn’t rise. Her shotgun had torn a
hole in his side as big as a man’s fist.
Sarah Wall was briefly jailed, but released on grounds of
self defense. George was buried at St.
Benedict Catholic Cemetery in Beech Grove, Kentucky—or rather, he was buried
adjacent to it. It is said in the family
that he could not be buried in the churchyard due to the circumstances of his
death, and therefore was buried on the other side of the cemetery fence—a
common custom in those days. There was
no marker.
I can’t imagine the anguish of Cordelia, losing her husband
in such a public and disgraceful way.
But she remained in McLean County the rest of her life, as did two of
her three sons. In the 1900 census she
and her three boys lived with her widowed mother. By the 1910 census she and the boys were on
their own again, farming. Cordelia never
remarried, and she died in 1913 at just 44 years old. She was buried at St. Benedict’s Catholic Cemetery,
too—but most likely not beside her husband.
I think this is quite an interesting story. I do feel sorry for Cordelia.
ReplyDeleteI think there are a lot more skeletons in the family closets that many people realize. Some things just weren't talked about at all.
Sometimes I wonder whether we should be digging them out, or if we should just let them remain buried.
In any case, it is always nice to make discoveries, savory or otherwise, about our ancestors.
I debated whether to tell this particular family about this... What I finally decided was, how would I feel if it was me? If someone knew things they chose to withhould from me about my own family? If someone else decided what they thought I could or or could not handle? For me personally, I would want to know the truth... But like I said in my previous post, "Skeletons in the Closet," everyone thinks they want me to find black sheep, but do they really?
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